Trying to spot the Needs.
Kategorija: social
Co-
Co-ooking your meal and sharing during the feast.
Works
If science discovers, business operates, then art delivers.
Sharing
If there are thinking habits, here is one: Sharing* space.
Not helping but simply sharing knowledge, creations, …
Not expecting but simply sharing attention.
*bendrinti
Softness
Advice with a soft touch. How nice is that!
Networking
Personal Learning Networks.
Nature
If I agree that nature is an inspiration, how does it apply to human life? I think human beings differ from other beings in their imagination and follow up activity. Imagination is sparked by our experiences. Explore more. Then create. Solo. Together. Co-create for the Earth. What I’m not sure about is Solo. Does solo creation happen before (if we are always shaped by experiences..)? Or can we co-create straight away? How would co-diary work? Co-creation is a most meaningful way to be, so why not allow it to be?
Stupidity
One.
Bonding
Bend but stay still grounded.
Gyvai
Gyvenimas su gyvūnais pilnas gyvybės!
Spaces
I strive for the impossible – the world where everyone creates naturally. I thought everyone needs more or better tools? Maybe just time and space.
Jobs
Support everyone.
Dėmės
Kritika palieka dėmę širdyje. Geriau nekritikuok neprašyta. OK.
Knock knock
When Urgent knocks the door, lock your Self and pause.
Caring
Not everyone will realise they need (something) to feel good.
So it is a responsibility of those who notice individual and shared needs to look after others.
Attitude
Give First exhausts, but works.
Language
Rituals automate.
Tact
Ha! Questioning inside waves. Questioning outside breaks.
One
Coexistence bothers me before sleep. What matters? Freedom and attention to the needs of those nearby.
Can + – really exist in one? Or perhaps what is needed is zoom out?
Interaction
Following does not mean self is gone.
Exploring someone else’s world can co-exist with your own.
Kertam
Kai norisi judėti turbo greičiu, pabandyk patiekti mintį jausmu.
Tapatu
Kalbame apie Tapatybę. O ką tai reiškia? Tapatu reiškia bendra.
Kas yra universaliai bendra? Gamta, iš kurios kyla ir idėjos.
O kas yra Gamta?
Savęs ir Pasaulio pažinimas.
Žaislai
Kai vaikštinėju, pasvajoju. Kiek naujovių! O galėtų būti ir dar daugiau… Bet šiek tiek kita linkme. Kita vertybių sistema.
O kokia ta sistema?
Kai vaikščioju miške, džiaugiuosi harmonija. Kiekvieno augalo buvimu, bet ir visumos tėkme.
O kaip yra žmonėse? Kurgi ta darna, su savimi, tiek su kitu, tiek su visuma.
O gi, tėkmėje!
Touch-screen
Distance communication is so far away from face-to-face. Emoji is nothing like a hug. Blurry video doesn’t smile. Here is a small improvement for apps.
Touch a screen with a finger. Your friend does it too. Vibration like a sight.
Wants
What do we all secretely want? That someone listens with no advice, that someone shows how, that someone simply helps without asking for permission.
Chats
Hearing an opinion that comes from within makes my heart sing.
Being
What’s not true is Permission.
Links
Co-existence is never fulfilled solo. Because links is what create belonging. Just being. Just give. Balance it with just ask.
Me and We
I seek independence. But I’m inside the ecosystem. Because that’s how life works.
So, how to navigate the ecosystem? Balance me vs we? Schedule.
Variety
If I were to pick one thing from the natural world, it’d be diversity. Snails are slow. Eagles sharp. Seals wet.
And humans vary too!
I’m only learning to accept a sea of personalities, abilities and strengths.
Octopus
Being compassionate does not work together with being organised nor visionary. Compassionate is about now. Not tomorrow. And not next steps.
Parts
A cell is both, an individual and a part of an arm. And of the body.
Same with humans. We’re on our own but also a part of something bigger by default. A part of a human species. And of a planet Earth. And of the solar system. And of the universe.
And what’s awareness then? Maybe realising which role to play when. Different needs matter then.
Teams
Learning to be an arm, sometimes a head, sometimes a finger for a team. Same like cells are units of their own but also part of the bigger unit – the body.
Self
What if “self” is not truly important? While creating value for everyone is. Self suddenly gets lost in the process.
Togetherness
We set goals for one and assume everyone does. What about we get together first and then set common goals?
Energy
Energy is more important than efficient result. Because energy caries emotions which we remember. We forget the results. We often change paths and past results don’t matter. But the energy stays. We remember.
I asked a nurse: “What is one thing about caring?” “Love and compassion,” she said.
New Tools
How to learn to love everybody then? There are tools for efficiency. But what about scaling caring?
It comes down to micro interactions. Being kind to oneself. And others. Even if the inside burns with anger.
Values
How important it is to involve in an activity of determining your own values. Because – that’s how we trust the world, by starting to trust oneselves. From trust comes a willingness to collaborate, rather than fight, literally.
Values determination comes from observation.
Plus, time.
Give the world tools to observe and some time.
Would a world evolve to a better place to be?
Ethics
Ethics is a common topic in business and in technology. What are ethics? It’s a personal question, first.
Making myself (and/or others) better vs. Making myself (and/or others) worse.
The challenge is – ecosystems we live in are so complex and complicated, so that in most moments we cannot answer this question.
How might we simplify? Why complicate?
Nature
How might we have a good existence individually and collectively?
Can nature be our role model?
How
How to talk about Problems and Feelings?
Leadership
What I learned from the oldest people is to work:
“Here is how to do it.”
“Now, have fun!”
Clarity.
Freedom & Play.
If all work would be like that? No micro management. No authority. No even purpose. Because some tasks don’t have a higher mission behind it. They just need to get done. When you have fun and are clear how to do it, you are motivated to do it anyway.